Liz Taylor has an important column–
My impression of what went wrong is that you and your family — with the best intentions — decided what was best for your dad, but he never gave his consent. Just because he’s in a safer, nicer, cleaner, prettier place with meals, privacy, people and housekeeping, he doesn’t have to like it or understand why you like it for him. It’s his life.
He had the right to say no.
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